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Be Careful in Cuba

by Karine
(Canada)

I met a gorrrgeous man in Cayo Largo, who immediately became my boyfriend, despite all the "he only wants you so he can get out of the country" comments.

We immediately started planning my return three months later, which was great btw, never noticed any "signs", we got along really great, laughed a lot, planned my numerous returns..

Another three months later, about two weeks before my third flight to Cuba, I got an e-mail stating he was going to Spain the next day and he would soon tell me why once everything was settled.

Now, I'm not stupid, you and I all obviously know where this was going.

Beside the fact that I knew something was beyond wrong, I was still stupidly trying to give him excuses, like the fact that I knew his sister lived in Spain, I thought maybe, just maybe, she had invited him to live there. No.
.. I still went to Cuba, and upon my return, read a new e-mail that stated he had gotten married and moved to Spain with his wife.

damn.you.

New e-mails state he is unhappy with his life in Spain. Well, too bad, so sad sucker. My Canadian life is perfect!

Be-careful.

Remark by Vic, Webmaster

Thanks for the warning. I read the message that "he is unhappy with his life in Spain" as a statement that he can't go on with his "luxury life" cheating tourists "Cuban Style" in Spain. He's probaly already on the search for the next victim.
Be happy you didn't marry him!


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by: Anonymous

I am a Yuma, I would like to think I am not stupid. I am aware that prostitution is rife in Cuba and especially in Havana where there is real poverty and young men and women are selling their bodies in order to feed their families.

I avoid Havana like the plague when I visit Cuba. I find Havana to be full of hustlers, I find it to be dirty, smelly (especially around the Malecon and port area)

I prefer to visit quieter more remote areas to experience the real Cuba. I do not travel to Cuba to get laid. I have self respect. The country has so much more than male and female whores.

Some women and men are masochists for punishment.

They travel to Varadero or Guardalavaca,home of the male and female hookers who work in and work the resorts. They believe the b.s. being spun by the resort workers, who are all married with children but who will string them along as they can profit from the many expensive presents which these naive tourists bring them and are sold on.

The really stupid ones are the obese middle aged women who actually marry these hustlers fly them to Canada only to be dumped by them a few months later.

The old men who fly there for sex with young Cuban girls who are booked into the cheaper hotels for a week should be ashamed of themselves.


They are grotesque. Usually from Canada or Italy, you see these dirty old men in casas or 2 star hotels with girls who are young enough to be their granddaughters.

If you catch something and inevitably you will because you pay the girls more to have unprotected sex, then you deserve all you get. Remember some of the STD's going round these resorts have become immune to antibiotics so you will be bringing home more than you bargained for.


To the desperate middle aged American ex pats who who live in Havana you are a pitiful sight cycling round with the young poor black boys from Havana's barrios playing 'bike polo'. In their 50's and some 60's you are a laughing stock and should be ashamed of yourselves. As a fellow American I am ashamed to say that middle aged women like you should be paying for sex, and those boys make you pay big time.

The middle aged ex pat who runs the Here is Havana website is the biggest mug of all. Her Cuban husband has been playing her for 13 years, despite the fact she bought him a car. Treats her like shit.


Now she is playing with the Havana boys no doubt bought her favourite to boy the bicycle to play 'bike polo' as he would have to service a hell of a lot of yumas to earn the price of that bicycle. This idiot claims to be an expert on Cuba. Generation Y she is not!

So if you get scammed taken for a ride, conned in Cuba you deserve all that you because you must be a sucker for punishment.

They are poor people but they have dignity and yumas like you rob them of that dignity when you pay them to f....k you, and you are paying big time there is no way these young pretty boys would sleep with you for free.




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Only if you live less than half of a cuban - male or female - live you would EVEN start to think how things are in that country... no matter what is right or wrong - and that was wrong... for our standards... He or she need to flee away of that country!!
I will come in a month... and then you go back to your wonderful ( I do mean that!! ) country, live your wonderful life (financially!! or even more) and the person waits for you... "would you come back????" You know you would!!! But the person in NEED was not sure!!!!
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I got sucked in , I married and bought a house , i see sooooo many fools like I , the stupid tourist men actually think these women like, love them , i haven't talked to one who has a clue and I wasted my breath too many times , let you all learn the hard way , but granted these women and their families and friends are all great actors ,liars and theives.....thankfully I only lost 11000 on the house , she told me the price was 18000 , i found out from the man i bought the house from he was only asking 10, but to ask me to pay 18 , that i would pay , she wanted to ripp me off the other 8 , and this is a women i married and took care of for over a year , who told me everyday how much she loved me , and it was forever, bla ,bla ,bla ...I told her to fuck off once i found out , i didnt care what it costs , she made me sick , as do all cuban women do now....they are all theives.

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by: Estelle

I could not agree with your honest comments.

Grown women of a certain age must be out of their minds to think that a handsome man in his 20's would really love a woman in her 40's or 50's.

I have been in Varadero and seen enormous women, at least 180 to 200 lbs. waddle into a hotel lobby to be greeted by their male whore. I mean whore.

From his stylish clothing, sneakers, latest cell phone etc. it's obvious he earns a nice living by lying on his back servicing those beached whales who have no shame.

Hotel staff are well aware of what is going on. One woman in particular in her 50's, so overweight she has to resort to a walking stick and crutches changes her male whores quicker than she changes her underwear. She's a well paid high ranging professional in the Ontario Tourism Authority, and seems to have an addiction for young Cuban gigolos.

If D. is one of the women who then comes on to Havana Guide and whines about how badly she's been treated then I have no sympathy whatsoever. These old women know exactly what they are getting into.

They are push women, ugly, overweight, they are about as like to get laid in Ontario as Jabba the Hutt, so they take a cheap flight to Varadero for sex, pure and simple.

You see these women in Negril Jamaica. Enormous beached whales wobbling along the 7 mile stretch, blocking out the sun bulging out of their tight black lycra shorts looking ridiculous, their chubby arms round a rent a dread Rasta male whore.

These women are turning a whole generation of young men into male prostitutes, too lazy to work, they can make a better living on their back.

In Negril there are so many American women of pensionable age maintaining idler workshy Rastas.

They buy their male whores taxis, they find them clients, they feed them. Most of these guys are married to Jamaican women and have kids.

The American and Canadian grandmas are aware of this but have to shame.

First thing they always ask you when they meet you is if you need a taxi to the airport, they can arrange a lift for you.

Of course they can, for $60 US, 20 times the local rate. But they are merely pimping for their toy boy Rastas.

A wrinkly old Brit. from Liverpool with more lines in her face than Grand Central Station from decades of smoking and drinking, has bought a fashion business for her male whore of 25, he, a former tailor actually despises her.

Sue has had a string of male whores, accommodated and financed all of them. They always dump her.

But Sue is up at 6am to cook him akee and saltfish and his old wrinkled lover chats to him in patois which is hilarious, as she pampers her parasite while he has his own luxury cabin on her property Judy House Cottages.

He is clearly ashamed in front of guests, but disappears home to his wife and kids at weekends.

These old women have not shame, and we should have no sympathy for them. They know exactly what they are doing.

Jun 29, 2011
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by: Marianne Delgado


Cuba is a place where there is much misery, especially since 1959. Americans (with no Cuban relatives or association with the press) are not permitted to travel there. I guess that is why this forum contains so many stories from Canadians. Travel agents there build up Varadero Beach and the like as if they were paradise. The truth is that Cuba is a communist country filled with misery and heartache. There is no food, no money -- nothing. Tourists can be staying at a luxury hotel while the employees cannot enjoy anything their employers offer - even on a day off. Communism - where the doctor earns the same as the garbage man - communism - where if you say "I don't like Castro" in central Havana, they will put you in jail. No freedom of press and no freedom of speech. Everything is antiquated - no new cars, no 15 choices of bread in a market, no electronic doors opening and closing. It is like time has stopped since 1959. Why anyone in their right mind would ever think of entering into a relationship while on a vacation in Cuba is beyond me - unless you are extremely young and ill-informed before you go or unless you are mentally ill. How could a relationship that is not on some kind of equal footing flourish. The Dominican Republic and Haiti are similar even though they are not communists.

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Even After They've Conned You They Want More!
by: Celine

They don't give up. They have no sense shame or sense or morality.

For two years my Cuban was conning me, telling me how much he loved missed me, was desperate to see me again. 'Quero Verte' was what he kept repeating on the phone and in emails.

Little did I realise what a great actor he was. Building up for the kill. He manipulated me to leave behind the contents of my case. Then silence. No word for at least three months. Then I receive this..yet another lie. Apparently the reason for no contact was the phone which did not work, 'he was scammed. I told him where to go;...



Hola Celine, como estas, yo estoy bien , no te habia escrito antes porque no tengo correom bueno me compre el movil hace tiempo pero tiene problema con la linea, se la compre a un chico y me estafo, no te preocupes. nunca me olvido de usted.
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Interanual maldito bastardo. Me mentiste durante casi dos años, me pidió que regrese coño. No por amor sino porque quería usar para la ropa de dinero que podría vender para comprar un teléfono.

Que no tienen ningún interés para mí y cuánto me costará volver a Cuba.

Ahora ve y utilización, Con otro yuma.You no me puede usar más.

F.....k Off!

Celine.

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The Con Men Need to Be Shown Up, Outed
by: Celine

Karine, many women can relate to what your hustler put you through.

To some extent we have all been fooled, duped. Be it our feelings or with material things. They have used us.

However we should not paint all Cubans with the same brush. It's the hustlers who flock to the resorts and who pay to work at the tourist resrts who are in the main the con artists tricking a number of women at a time.

They need to be reprimanded. Nipped in the bud. Their bosses and colleagues know what they are doing and look the other way.

Why should they be allowed to play with people's lives, emotions, finances, and get away with it.

This is not about 'Poor Cubans'. Nonsense!.

It's about season hustlers. Crooks, criminals, who have money, they are the wealthiest in Cuba!. And They have to be stopped.

It's always the wealthiest who try to con others. Just look at what out politicians are getting away with!.

In Jamaica last week one of their wealthiest and most succesful artists - Elephant Man was prosecuted for stealing electricity. Another leading musicians also very wealthy - Buju Banton is serving 15 years for importing Class A drugs.

Do they need the money? No! But they still scam others.

I sent a picture with name and details of my scammer ex. to my local Cuban Tourism Board, and to the Cuban Embassy.

My con man ex will now hopefully be tapped on the shoulder. Stopped in his tracks before we can con some other unsuspecting tourist.

They do have to be stopped!

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by: Sally

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I was enjoying a magnificent sunset. The sunset to end all sunsets on the evening of my arrival. The Crystal beer never tasted better after my longhaul flight.

He approached me, to my annoyance, blocking my view of the sunset. Would I mind if he joined me as he cockily pulled up a chair. Meanwhile I'm trying to think of a few choice words to tell him where to go and waiting for him to hang himself with some line.

But Franklin is a seasoned scammer par excellence. He showed me his tightly honed calf muscles bragging that he'd just returned from a 30 kilometre cycle ride. He was on the national team and had won many cups for his cycling.

He also happened to organise tours. I told him point blank that I did not need a tour guide. He turned the conversation round with a smile by inviting me to have a drink at a great little bar close by.

He drove a very flash souped up Honda so clearly had been successful or had a few wealthy yumas taking care of him.

The latest Vybes Kartel and Movado boomed from his stereo as we pulled up at the local bar and he hopped out loving the jealous glances from the local jiniteros. He described the Honda as his baby, his 'Lamborghini'.

He passed the test, kept the conversation interesting, we touched on Obama, G4 summit, the recent capture of Bin Laden, greedy politicians, needless involvement in too many wars etc. Taking out Khadafi etc. he won me over, he was bright.

He offered to take me to breakfast next day and we parted with no more than a peck on the cheek. Breakfast was delicious served by a lovely aguela who knew how to rustle up the best plantain and roasted breadfruit with cornmeal porridge I'd ever tasted.

He wanted to take me to a local beauty spot, n undiscovered beach but he need me to 'chip in for petrol'. Sure I said.

'Fill her up and I need oil as well' he told the garage attendent instructing him to collect payment from me.

'That will be 80 CUC's' said the attendent. 'Oh I'm not the owner, he's paying' I replied.

Franklin frowned 'I though we had agreed we were sharing' he said. 'Share'? I asked. 'Pitch In, yes, but not take the p.iss' I replied. "Do not swear he reprimanded me, I'm a Christian' pointing to the 'I work with God' sticker.

He explained that since he was taking me to the beach and would collect me tomorrow 80CUC was peanuts. I think we have crossed wires here I told him. I never asked for and never wanted you to be my tour guide. If I had wanted one I would have requested one.

Meanwhile his eyes are following a blonde as she strolls by in denim hotpants.

"Be my guest, maybe she has a bigger budget than me' I told him as I hopped out of the Honda slamming the door in his now startled face as the attendent asks him for some ID and payment and threatens to call security.

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by: Seen the light

That they think they can get away with doing what they do, but they soon get rumbled.
I told my ex about this website, I even told him that there was sites that 'named and shamed' cetain Cubans, thier names, thier descriptions, where women met them, what clubs etc etc. I explained a few times as best as I could that we are getting wise to it all now, but it was like talking to someone who was on day release, he nodded, blew air out of his teeth, shook his head, the look of astonishment on his face was a sight to behold, but, did he take it in? no, of course not.
He knew I was on to him, and especially after mentioning sites, and told him a few stories, the stupid fool still thought he could push his luck.

Initially I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt, and even though I was so hard and wise with him at times, he still tried to push it.

He has contacted me a few times since I split up with him, he is sorry, he knows now that he was wrong, and I am the woman for him..... I have not even acknowledge his emails or his texts, as I couldnt care less, he had his chance, he blew it, so let him get on with it.

They think they are so clever, they think we do not know the score, that we are stupid, I let mine think I was stupid to a certain extent,and cause he thought I was stupid he would push it, then..... I would rip his head off lol

I must admit when he would try and get one over on me, I did get a sadisitic pleasure out of getting him back, in the end it ended up being a game with me, he made it so easy for me.

The plus side now is that there are sites like this one that hopefully can give warnings to potential victims.

May 31, 2011
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by: Sally

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He's good looking and a great dancer and spent a week trying to convince me that he was really interested despite the fact I'm 10 years older.

We would do simple things like sit on a bench enjoying a drink watching the waves, as he whispered enderaments of love in my ear.

He told he was single and emailed me for two years repeating those words of love.

I finally relented and returned at great expense. He was different, stylishly dressed, more arrogant, too confident, he bitched a lot about so many financial problems, I became bored and lost my patience, but he kept wooing me until the last night when he went in for the kill.

We had some drinks in a romantic setting and he managed to cajole all my clothes out of me.

I never heard from him again not until last week, (six months later) to tell me he missed me and still thought about me. I did not reply.

I later discovered he was the father of two children by different mothers and lived with one of them.

So much for being 'single'.


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