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Be realisitic about Life, Friendship and Love in Cuba

by Janice Chamberland
(Ottawa)

I have been to Havana many times. I understand the ways of the cuban. Older ladies, tourists ladies of an older age.... Stay real is all. Unless you are "Temba Bella..." a really attractive older woman and your cuban man is only a few years younger then please don't fool yourselves. If you cannot attract a beautiful young man in your country why then do you think this Cuban, the most beautiful men on earth is infatuated with you? He is not. He wants fun for the week. If you do too then enjoy!!! I go there to dance and dance I do!!!I pay the way in and buy a few drinks. I am careful. I accept the friendship if I see he is a good soul and you can spot the Jineteros by the nice clothes and bodies! I myself am embarrassed to be hanging out with young men..its looks so obvious but for dancing no problem. It is your choice how you want to go with it but I say leave your heart in your hotel room and have fun. Do not be a sucker. I am still friends with the very first man I met in Cuba. He is married now with a baby. No man I have met has asked me for a thing...not ever. Maybe to hacer el amor and never for money!

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1. Cuba is seductive. Its women and its men can sweep you off your feet with ease.
2. Originally went to Cuba to conduct research, met many friends and learned how to tell the hustlers from the decent folk. Sometimes theme is a blending of the two, so you must always be aware. I hate to quote Reagan, but my style is "trust but verify."
3. I was away from Cuba for several years, but returned 7 years after my initial visit and met a lady the just blew me away. I told her after meeting her that I would return to see her. It has now been 6 years into the relationship and we have spoken every day since that initial introduction. And as I indicated above, I am in Cuba every month.
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5. She cheated and I caught her. 10 months into the relationship, a Cuban friend told me. I confronted her and although her first instinct was to deny, 30 seconds later she admitted it and assured me it was an error and that she begged for forgiveness. This lady was not a hustler, she was very well educated and from a middle class Cuban family. I was devastated. At that time,I had only visited Cuba every 3 months. I think that's an important fact to take note of.
6. Why? Because from the Cuban perspective, tourists make promises and then just pass on through. She had no reason to know I was unlike the others, she had all the reason to doubt my sincerity. Ask yourself, would you put your life on hold for a person that only visits once every 3 months? I certainly would not.
7. We struggled deeply through thus period, and to this day, I am still hurt by the event. But any long distance relationship is difficult. Any relationship that depends on seeing your other 3-4 times a year is imo deemed to fail. Its impossible and unrealistic. Its asking for far too much.
8. People who suggest when you leave Cuba that your live will have another on the side are not exactly correct. But in general, its true. Its true for the reasons noted above. Short-time creates an impossibility. But rushing into a marriage is foolish too. You must take the time to know the person, their friends, family and co-workers. You must get to the point where you are "accepted", but you will never truly be accepted because for the majority, Cubans will always see you as Yuma. They will view your girl or man as a jinitera/jinitero, irrespective of the sincerity of the relationship. There exists allot of envy amongst Cubans too.
9. The wrong place to med a Cuban: Discos, tourist zones and definitely hotels. Your a Mark at these locations. If you walk that walk, good luck, you'll need it.
10. If you can't be patient and hold off from rushing into a marriage, good luck, you'll need it.
11. If you can't afford to finance travel at least 9 times per year, good luck.
12. I have two children in Cuba now. I adore them and I am happy. I do believe we are fine but I'm not blind. Certainly there may be issues that I dont see. But I dont think I'm wrong. I've intentionally taken it slow.
13. Lastly, anyone that takes on a long distance relationship is out of their minds, its tough. But just because its tough does not mean it cannot work, your just going to have to work to make it work. Don't de discouraged by the nay Sayers, just trust, and verify.

Nov 16, 2014
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Boyfriend staying in hotel room NEW
by: Anonymous

I haven't heard of any new laws. You will have to pay allot by Cuban standards for him to stay with you. My friend paid 85 a night to have her boyfriend have full access to her all inclusive hotel. Call the hotel you plan to stay at yourself. The front desk staff speak English.

Nov 16, 2014
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Cuba's new law? NEW
by: Anonymous

I just heard there was a new law passed in Cuba that says No locals and tourist can stay together at the resort even if each is staying in their own rooms at the Grand Club. Not sure how true this is but would like to know if anyone knows about this law in 2014..There is a two yr age difference between me and the person I am going to see. I may cancel my trip due to this if in fact this is true. Does anyone know about this new law?

Oct 17, 2014
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I am only 20 years old NEW
by: lili

Hi,My name is Aaliyah... I am 20 years old,nice looking black girl so no desperate old lady here..

I went to cuba with my family and had the time of my life.. the staff really connected with our family and loved us because we were humble..and let's be real there is not a lot of black families who go to resorts so they though we were unique.Adjacent to my resort was the other hotel.. where i met friends im still in contat with,and my current.bf,He is 30 years but looks 23 years old we connected instantly,we communicate thru email.He is a dancer at the hotel adjacent to mine and that's how we met... i was so attracted to him and same thing for him.we started talking and got intimate teh same nigh(Tmi) but he was straigh forward with me..humble and he told me he had a sun already.. I never sent him a penny and he never asked me for anything..I even speak to his mama on the phone sometimes... So u can't generalise.Maybe cuz my situation is so different from yours and we connected on a whole different level.

Mar 24, 2014
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I HAVE NO REGRETS NEW
by: Anonymous

I HAVE BEEN TO CUBA 57 TIMES SINCE 1993. I HAVE SEEN A LOT OF CHANGE AND HAVE A 1000 EXPERIENCES. IN MY OPINION, EVERY CUBAN, MALE OR FEMALE IS LOOKING FOR SOMETHING. THEY SEE YOU AS A PAYCHECK. THEY ARE NOT LOOKING TO GIVE, BUT OUT OF DESPERATION, THEY ARE LOOKING TO GET. I WAS LUCKY ENOUGHT TO FIND A 23 YEAR OLD IN 1995. I AM STILL WITH HER AFTER 17 YEARS. SHE HAS NEVER ASKED ME FOR A THING, BUT I HAVE GIVEN HER MUCH AND HAVE IMPROVED HER LIFE GREATLY. I HAVE NO REGRETS & AM HAPPY I MEET HER. SHE IS A REAL SWEETIE, AND I HAVE GOOD FEELINGS ABOUT HELPING HER. LIFE IS DIFFICULT IN CUBA.

Mar 02, 2014
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Beware of Cuban women
by: Anonymous

My husband myself and two kids visited Cuba for the very first time six years ago. We be friended a a young bartender working at the hotel where we stayed. After our third visit to the island the young man I voted us to his
Home where he lived with his parents and his girlfriend, his sister her son and her boyfriend. For some strange reason we were led to believe that the sisters son was the brothers son. Not sure why the deception. Anyway we have visited this family several times in the last few years. It was about 2 years ago that we we finally told the truth. The parents seemed nice and of course we always brought gifts every time we visited. My husband also visited them a few times alone as i was unable to accompany him. Unfortunately for me what I did not know was that my husband was having an affair with the daughter although she has a boyfriend and is living with her parents. This young woman is half his age. He has given her electronics, cellphones, money, clothing and much more,
He has denied that this is the case but continues to email her everyday. If he knows of anyone who is going to Cuba he sends gifts to her. This is what happens when men are desperate he believes that this young woman is in love with him, and maybe she is because of all the things that he can provide to her and her family.
I am seeking a divorce although my husband continues to deny that there is any involvement with this young woman. Beware of Cuban women.


Jan 02, 2014
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To the person who wrote Jan 02/14
by: Jan

7 years have passed since my first time in Cuba. Now,I couldn't agree with you more.
All the best of luck to you with your book. I will always love Cuba and the people and I have strived to understand why people do what they do. I would be no different.

Jan 02, 2014
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Reflections on Cuban Romance
by: Anonymous

I have spent some time reading these comments and I thank you for writing. I agree with so much that is being said--especially about the grizzled old men with their teen-age girlfriends. And it looks equally sad to see very old women with their young "dance partners." I am from the US and have traveled (legally) as a researcher to Cuba many times, having just returned a couple weeks ago from my last trip. I have just finished a book about my experiences.

I visited for the first time in 2002, found myself in love with the island and enamored with our tour guide. We began an "intellectual" (not sexual)and serendipitous relationship and he made it no secret that he had a girlfriend. Ironically, we never communicated between my visits--but somehow when I returned to the island we would reunite for coffee or dinner. He was wealthy by Cuban standards--and Spanish, not black. He asked me for nothing, I did not meet his family or go to his house. His story was so interesting to me and provided me with an inside look at the struggles of Cuban life. I am sure I provided him with a window into life in the US. This past July he called me from Nicaragua to say he was out of Cuba and for the first time he asked me for financial help. I said no. Nonetheless, he made his way here through Mexico and is now trying to find his way in this very tough society that requires $400 a month for health insurance. From a wealthy Cuban to a penniless immigrant has got to be very painful. I have not see him. Who knows if he will survive this culture shock. My heart goes out to him and all Cubans who want a better life. Knowing him as I do, with his fluency in five languages, his knowledge of the world, and his wonderful personality, he will do well if he can manage to stay afloat the first year.

I never had any illusions about us building a life together, but he has taught me a lot about unconditional love, and courage, and patience. He gave me permission to use his real name in my book to "tell the truth about Cuba." That, to me, is a gift beyond measure.

If we travel to Cuba knowing how desperate people are to have freedom (driver's license, car, new shoes, public library, $10.00 an hour, cell phone, no censorship, steak every day) then it will be easier to forgive them if they tell us lies to get out of Cuba. Practically speaking, if someone has survived on rice and beans for weeks and then is offered the choice between steak every day or the smile of an elderly companion there is no contest. If that smile can offer the promise of steak every day for an entire family, it is easy for me to see why someone would lie.


Nov 02, 2013
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having a cuban husband it is a lot of work...
by: Married to a Cuban

I am not telling you not to bring them to Canada or leave them in Cuba, I am telling you it is a huge and difficult job to 'raise' a Cuban. Before we marry one, we all should know the differences in between the countries, the culture and the life style. My husband is happy here but he was also happy there. It took him a while to make a decision about leaving his country. Before and even after we got married he asked me (not just once) to move to Cuba. He was scared to leave Cuba. I was worried until the last minute, he might not get into the plane. You have to be very careful with them when brining them into this country. They are so unexperinced in everything...and Remember: you don't marry the cubano only, you marry the whole family. I am happy with mine and believe me he is very nice to me..still..sometimes i wish I would never bring a cubano into Canada! You have to invest a lot (energy and money) to make it work...and not always the end ends in a succesful marriage...Think about it...

Apr 30, 2013
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6 years later
by: Janice

Thank you all for the comments over the years. I continued going to Cuba twice a year, took many many dance lessons and really enjoyed all of the Cuban experiences but especially dancing in Havana and the genuine Cuban friends I met. I just returned from what will probably be my last time. I may go again with my future husband just to show him that magnificent crumbling city but it will be a differant kind of trip.
My attitude has changed over the years to a degree. I thought I was so smart and understood Cuban people. When I re read my original article I can see that it sounds more like smug.
I know there will be many more men and women who become infatuated by the flavor, color, dance, sexuality and exotica of Cuba. It really was intoxicating for me and I don't regret any of it.
Thank you for the post about good relationships. I have seen some that really have worked. I still maintain that the ones that worked are between two people that are evenly matched both physically and emotionally and without big age gaps.
My recent trip showed me how wide and vast the sex industry has become. It is a way of life and as one Cuban said with a shrug of shoulder, "es Cuba. Es normal"
One day I hope to see a free Cuba.

Apr 30, 2013
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Happily married to a Cuban man
by: Anonymous

Well I have good things to say about Cubans! First ill tell you that i met my husband 5 years ago in Varadero. I won't bore you with my detailed love story of how I flew down every few months to see him, how we chated online everyday etc. I will tell you that I speak Spanish my parents are Mexican and I was born in Canada. Yes, speaking spanish made it very easy to communicate with him and his family. He does speak fluent English because he attended English classes in Varadero. He and his family never asked for money or expensive items. I never bought him a cellphone , laptop, electronics etc. I would bring stuff to his family that i thought they needed. He paid for his own paperwork in Cuba and paid for half the wedding in Varadero. If they truly love you they will find a way to pay for stuff. I will tell you that we are both the same age and both match in looks. We both are here living in Ontario working hard and building our home together. Yes we have our arguments like any other couple but we make it work. We just celebrated our 4 year anniversary. I have a friend in Vancouver married to a Cuban as well going strong and just had a baby. They celebrated 5 years of marriage. They also are around the same age and looks match. Also i have three more couples that we all have become friends through our Cuban husbands and they are all still together with children. None of them sent money to the Cuban men , bought crazy expensive items and did not renovate their home in Cuba. It's true what the other person said that these women/men that are not attractive and chubs go down to Cuba and all of sudden they are gorgeous and pick up hot young Cubans! Really??? They marry them and then wonder why they left them as soon as they got to Canada. If you can't get a hot young spouse here in Canada then why would you think you could pick one up in Cuba?I don't get it. Don't they look in the mirror?? There is this 64 year old man in my town bald with a pot belly and married a 28 year old girl from Cuba! She left him after a week. How could he not see that coming. How did immigration not see it was a fraud marriage?These people that are on the news talking about marriage fraud really need to look in the mirror. My advice to anyone marrying a Cuban is don't send money dont buy them anything! If they truly love you they will marry you for you and not your money.

Mar 25, 2013
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Donna from Toronto and Janice- Escuchame
by: Anonymous

Listen, of course marriage fraud occurs in Cuba. But I was extremely offended (I am a white American- not a Cuban) to see the end of Donna's post which said basically "have fun.. but don't marry them! Leave them in Cuba!" How could someone make such a blanket statement about any group of people? That is horrible. If someone genuinely fell in love there and then saw that and ended what had the potential to be a perfect relationship because they got scared by your blatant distrust of the Cuban people. They have feelings, they are not deviant little demons who try to cause as much pain as possible to leave their country. Of course they want to leave Cuba.. but if you think that they aren't usually in love when they marry out of the country then I would urge you to open your mind. There are barriers I think that make these marriages less successful- especially the differences in culture and behavior when they begin living in a capitalist state with their spouses. I will have you know I am deeply in love with a Cuban woman, she is married and lives out of the country, and we plan to tell him about us and try to start a life together. She was in love with him, and still loves him, but his attitude changed in a big way when he wasn't living with her in Cuba- but rather back in the hectic commercialist lifestyle. And if you think she doesn't feel remorse and extreme pain about the fact that she must ruin the life of the man she used to love, then you are completely wrong. Yeah, don't trust every cuban you meet. also don't trust every American- or Canadian- that you meet.

Aug 16, 2010
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Not Sad - It's Life!
by: Kelly

Janice I do not agree with you when you day it's 'so sad' when women are played by Cuban men.

Cubans are no different from men worldwide, they have the same feelings, desires etc.

Of course they have a greater need to leave, especially the professionals who are disgusted at having to survive on $18 a month after years of study and these are doctors scientsts, engineers.

Do you blame them for targetting solvent middle aged women at tourist resorts?.

Do you blame them for paying as they do hundreds of CUC to managers of these resorts to hire them.?.

Anyone who has stayed at a resort in Havana, Guardalavaca or Varadero will have stories to relate about these 50 something women with their toy boys.

The chubby middle aged Canadian walking around the resort with a man young enough to be her son.

She's paid for his stay at the a/inclusive. He looks sheepish but is playing the game. She's his jackpot, his passport to prosperity.

She bought him a cellphone, designer clothing, sneakers. Run up a massive phone bill.

So do not make me laugh that she is 'shocked' when he jumps ship as soon as his papers arrive and she is out of pocket to the tune of $5,000 Canadian or more.

What else did she expect?.

Would a handsome young Canadian half her age fall in love with her, a tubby 50 something? Get real!.

If they believe that then they believe in the tooth fairy and Father Xmas.

You say that some on here are 'cynical'.

No, I'd say they are realistic, honest.

There are an awful lot of angry middle aged tubby Canadian women typing angry letters to their MP's for a change in legislation on marriage fraud etc, and posting on forums like this.

Talk about the horse bolting.

But perhaps a little reality check or a close look in the mirror would not have gone amiss!.


Aug 16, 2010
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There Are Some Good Stories Too Janice.
by: Donna

As you said Janice the genuine Cuban men do not work at the resorts and most have a sense of pride.

They are also no John Travoltas on the dance floor. Some have two left feet :).

However most tourists ladies will not meet those men because few venture out past the confines of their all inclusive resorts.

How many women are prepared to just book a flight to Cuba and chart an independent journey across the island visiting the out of the way rural villages, catching local buses and even trucks. Not many.

However it's the way to meet real Cubans, and if you can manage to string a few sentences in Spanish so much the better.

I have spent a weeekend partying in the beautiful garden of a family in Trinidad, celebrating el Dia del Mama at the casa of two of Cuba's lovliest elderly ladies with pictures of Che all over their home. Their father fought alongside him.

I've spent a week enjoying the cultural activites, dance art music, at the Romero di Mayo in Holguin.

If more women were prepared to venture out, they would meet the real Cubans, and that includes some genuine Cuban men.

I like the idea of having friends check out a potential I think every woman should put their man to the test.

Set a Honey Trap :).

Happy Dancing Janice!.






Jun 25, 2010
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by: Janice

It makes me so sad to read all these pages of pain and heartache, bad cubans and stupid tourists.
Donna whoever you are... people think you are being too cynical but it's all true what you are writing. I'm sure if I had discovered Cuba when I was in my 20's or 30's I would have been the same. Maybe 2 or 3 times!
Girls and boys falling in love with Cubans... if you want to know that he is being sincere perhaps you could try this.
I met someone recently who met and fell in love with a Cuban from Havana. They wrote weekly and spoke on the phone as often as possible. He worked as yes you guessed it, in a hotel and taught dancing on the side. Good looking, charming and a beautiful body. He could sing ( as most cubans do )and dance so very sexy. She met his family...had dinner at his home...his family seemed to embrace her and hugged her when she left promising to write and seeming so happy for her and their brother/son that he met such a good woman.
She wanted to believe him but fear from this side and many more warnings caused her to be shrewd. Two months ago a few friends of hers headed to havana to the hotel where her boyfriend worked. She did not tell him about her friends being there but instead asked her friends to ask him if he knew anyone who could teach dancing. They didn't need to go to him...as soon as he saw these two nice looking canadian women he was over there at their table chatting and charming. (he speaks english very well) He offerd his services and throughout the week ...much much more. Upon arriving in Canada...photos of kissing and even fondling... an e mail address, phone number and love letter almost identical to the first one she got from him, the one friend, whom he targeted as his love interest, proceded to break her friends heart with this ugly truth. When the girlfriend confronted her boyfriend he cried and begged and told her this was part of his job and that if he did not do this with tourist women he would be fired. ... Saddly she still partly believes him.

I want to hear some more success stories and would love to hear from some cubans, men and women who married yumas and will be honest with these people on this site. Perhaps now in Canada or where ever, they have changed for the better. I would like to think so and maybe they would be the best to hear from. If they could share some thoughts it would benifit allot of people.

I do know of a young couple very much in love. He is Cuban but has been living in Miami for 3 years.
They met online ( she was looking for a cuban american) and he is now living here in Canada with her and they are adorable together. BUT he is not a city shark. This beautiful young man grew up in the Matanzas, never worked in hotels and does not even know how to dance salsa... Don't know if less exposure to tourists made a difference.

May 20, 2010
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Thank you
by: Anonymous

I agree with all who posted comments. I was responding to a woman asking if she should believe her young lover when he would tell her he is in love with her.

The last time in Cuba I encountered a man who had been sending, for 2 years, 500 a month to a young woman. He also bought her family stove, fridge, computer, cell phones, etc... He arrived this time to be told "it wasn't working out".

It happens both ways. The difference I see is that for the most part most men have no problem whatsoever being used nor using and yes even boast about it. It's an unpleasant reality. I feel sorry for the girls the things I hear they endure for 50 dollars and a meal.


It is unfortuate because I too love Cuba, its culture music and dance and I don't like the reputation it receives in this area.
As for the person who mentioned "dance lessons" that was my purpose for going to Havana so often. There are few Cubans here or in the city closest to me ( Montreal) and here in Canada they have allot of young women to choose from and don't need us to pay for drinks. In Cuba you give and you get what you want in that area. A week of dancing all night every night and paying for some drinks and admission costs much much less than a one hour dance lesson here in Canada.

Apr 14, 2010
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I totally Agree with you Janice
by: Donna from Toronto

I agree with what you have written.

Otherwise perfectly sensible women seem to leave logic at home as soon as they set foot in Cuba.

Do they not realise that by virtue of the fact that people there have to survive on $20 a month and are not able to leave, they will jump at the chance to marry the first woman who is stupid enough to export them out to the West.

I am 30, but I have seen women in their 50's with men in their early 20's and they look pathetic.


Do these women really believe the 'Te Quero Mucho' 'Te Amo' B.S. nonsense?. Because it is not real, it's a script spun by all Cuban man t every woman gullible enough to fall for it.

In Canada today many young women are opting for a career as opposed to marrying.

And to be honest marriage is an outdated institution invented by the Church and the State. It incarcerates and enslaves women. They have to change their name, They are opting for a life of domestic drudgery, because few men engage in domestic cleaning or grocery shopping.

Least of the mach Cuban man. So why would any women n her right mind marry one of them, and bankrupt herself financially. Get into debt for a man who truly could not care less for her, and does not respect her. They see easy women as stupid, gullible, promiscuous even.

They have a lot more respect for Cuban women who are tough with them. I have seen so many Canadian women hop into bed on the first night, then fall for the b.s. they are spun. They return within months and put themselves deeply into debt.

From the many pages of sad stories on here, you can see the outcome of this folly, stupidity,

If you lumber yourself, and I mean lumber, with one during your vacation it's like carrying around excess baggage, being weighed dow by their demands.

You will be forking out double the expense as you're expected to pay for drinks travel hotel etc.

I was never stupid enough to go along with this. But so many women do.

Go to Cuba, travel have fun, dance, meet the people, stay in casa particulars, engage in the wonderful culture. Speak Spanish or learn to.

Dance enjoy yourself, But do not marry them. Leave them there where they are actually a lot happier. They never settle in a cold climate and they will make you life hell.

But do not marry them, leave them there!.




Mar 07, 2010
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Why Castigate only the Women and Not the Men?
by: Javier

Janice, I agree some of the desperate emails from ladies seeking affirmation that this is 'true love' are pathetic.

There is no way it's going to be true love after knowing someone for a week, or two.

It is pretty obvious that many of these women are desperately insecure and seeking self worth by way of a hustler who is seeking to use them as a means of a passport out of Cuba.

However whey do you focus purely on the women, and not the men.

I am sure that during your many visit to Cuba for your 'dancing lessons' you have witnessed the old men with very young women.

However these old men do not incur your disapporoval, only the women.

Why is that?.

I have read some of these old men's comments on here and they are not nice.

They brag about going with 'Jineteras' and in many cases these young girls are just 15.

In their own country they could be arrested sleeping with a minor.

In Canada it's referred to as pedophilia.

Mar 07, 2010
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Why Castigate the Women When Wrinkly Grandads are Sleeping with 15 year olds?
by: Patricia

I read your post with interest, and whilst I agree with much of what you have written I think you are being overly harsh on the women.

In all of the years you have been visiting Havana for many years to engage in your...
"Dancing Lessons"

Have you not witnessed the leathery wrinkly old grandads slobbering over girls young enough to be their grandaughter?.

Have you ever visited a casa in Santiago and seen the dirty old Italian grandfathers sneaking in a 15 year old girl usually a single mom, willing to sleep with this vile old goat for 15 CUC so she can feed her child?.

I have visited Cuba many times, I love the culture and people. I stay as casa particulars and have made many friends over the years.

But these friends are great Cuban people, lovely ladies who invite me to their Mother's Day clebrations which last all weekend. I do not go there for a Cuban man who let's face are ten a penny and would sleep with a dog if they though it would provide them with a ticket to Canada or Europe.

The kind of women who write on here looking for advice are wracked with low self esteem and doubt about their relationship. Why else would be they seeking reassurance from online strangers.

It is sad that a generation of young women are allowing themselves to be used by workshy hustlers who spin them a lie, the same lie being used by thousands of Cuban hustlers. We have seen from many posts, that the same email does the rounds.

But we should also be looking to the dirty old men who abuse youngsters of 12 and 14. In Canada they would be arrested for pedophilia.

Why has no one pointed out this fact?. Why is it always the women who come in for criticism on this website? and the men get away with exploitation of young females.

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