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Jinetera or Not?

by Tony

Her description: Low 30's dark, long soft hair ($150 every month in a half), expensive make up for economic level (Macy's or better)...tummy tuck, fake boobs, tattoos, child, $7000,00 vehicle upon arrival (making monthly payments)

I'm a professional here in South Florida (age Low 40's) and met a great girl (Low 30's) with a superb smile and charm who arrived in Florida from Cuba in 8/2009...we met in 11/2009.

From the 2nd date on...it was..."I don't know what it is, but I have Very very strong feelings for you" not 2 weeks go by she claiming she's in love.

Now I'm no fool...I can score women as I am decent looking and quite charming myself...so I suspected her to be a Jinetera...however, I played along because even though i'm a professional...I am very broke...mainly because of my crazy amount of Child Support I pay monthly. But I do have a nice size house that I live alone in...that I am sure excited her...so much so...from day one she would say "this is my new house"

What she wasn't aware of until too late was that I have my house under my father's name...and that I have over $230,000.00 in debt. Well around Jan/2010 I let her know... unfortunately for her...I managed to get her to have feelings for me...so she tried to stay with me. Not sure if it was because she thought she could live there with her child...but I suspected as much. Oh and I failed to mention how during the first month...until she found out I was really broke...all she talked about was marriage (I never did let her move in).

Fast forward...Sept/2010 she finally breaks it off...the allure of love wore off. But she left a strong hole in my heart...

Her daily..."you know I love you sooo much" "I can't wait to get home to you" blah blah blah...was VERY EFFECTIVE. Much more effective than I had anticipated.

I guess I wrote this to warn victims...Watch it...Love don't come cheap...and the pain after might not be worth the ride. They will leave you eventually. She did not like it when I called her out and called her what I knew she was...a Jinetera.

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Jun 16, 2015
Jinetera or Not? NEW
by: Anonymous

I am extremely sorry with what ever happened to you with your partner. I feel sad for being deceived. I have come across few stories about them in http://www.myessay.biz/laboratory-reports/. That was embarrassing that why people do such things in love. To be careful initially in any relation is mandatory.

Mar 03, 2015
jinetera NEW
by: mohisin

It is not about how we look it is about how we behave and how we love others. Look comes after all that. I am happy that yesterday I met two loving Cubans who love each other more than their life. I was so happy seeing them. I believe Cubans will become lovable in future.EMR software companies

Jan 19, 2015
I Think I Met Her! NEW
by: Anonymous

"Her description: ..Low 30's dark, long soft hair ($150 every month in a half), expensive make up for economic level (Macy's or better)...tummy tuck, fake boobs, tattoos, child, $7000,00 vehicle upon arrival (making monthly payments)"..

I think I met this Jinitera. Is her name Dan.....ia? and does she work as 'Animation' at the Don Lino in Rafael Fereyre?.

If so it's the same woman. Though to be honest she does more time hooking up with the guests than animating'.

She hit on me the first night. Spun me the usual line, wants to have my babies, wants me to build her a house so we can live together when I'm in Cuba.

Fortunately I had read the posts on this forum and was wised up so I told her I was not interested.

That hotel is no better than a knocking shop. I have never seen so many old guys with young Cuban working girls booked in for the week.

Nothing to do there, no activities, not unless you want to go cycling. But the animation team are too busy hooking the guests.

Weirdly enough they have an onsite doctor who was giving jabs to the working girls when I stayed. But her old man told me the jabs were ineffective due to their overuse by these girls who treat them like candy.

Word of warning to the guys on here. If you do hook up with one of these gals be sure to wear protection. They have a different guy every week.

Dec 31, 2014
Tony You Had aLucky Escape NEW
by: Rick Ottawa

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'Tummy tuck, fake boobs, tattoos, child, $7000,00 vehicle upon arrival'


You were spot in describing her as a Jinitera, an out and out hooker more like. You had a lucky escape my friend.

I am sure it was painful, the realization of what she really was as much as the break up.

But time is a great healer, and you let her down gently. She made the choice to break it off following your announcement of your debt and the fact the title of your home was in your father's name. A great move.

Not meaning to be a cynic, sure some inter racial relationships can work out, but only a small percentage between Cubans and non Cubans who's prior concern is where to hustle the next meal.

Following 50 years of Communism, they have mastered the art of the hustle, the con the scam, the ability to survive.

The ability to scam a foreigner into believing their b.s. Their lies their sweet talk of 'mi amor, ti quiero mucho.

How many million times a day is that well worn script trotted out across Cuba each day?

You need to read between the lines where a Cuban is concerned, learn their slang version of Spanish in order to spot the hustles and game playing.

I am sure there are some genuine ones, but they are not to be found in Haileah, South Beach or Havana where prostitution is rife.

Stray off the beaten path in Cuba you will find some genuine people far away from the prostitution zone that is the all inclusive.

I wish you the best my friend, I hope you find true love one day.

Oct 11, 2011
So true.
by: Anonymous

We never think having someone always tell us how much they need us and we are necessary for them will wear a man down. Everything you said was so true, but my side of the story is that it was a Canadian that did that to me before also. My theory is that its ourselves in general man or woman gamble with what your comfortable with losing. The hole in the heart thing is best to clean, sterilize, bandage before "our" hearts get infected.As scary and blissful as any relationship can there will be memories.

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