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married to a jinitera

by gerry
(Canada)

I met and fell in love with a woman. We got married and things were great until she started disappearing for a week at a time. I live in Canada and I was going back and forth to see her. When I'm in Canada, she has the occasional week off and disappears.
We are getting divorced,, she is making it difficult.
I need proof she is seeing other men.
SO..... any man out there who has been with a woman with REALLY nice tits and a long scar on her belly. Her first name starts with an " L "
I'm not mad or angry at the men.. they don't know she is married. I need help.. If you were with this woman or know about her,,,,, PLEASE contact me.
Put a comment here, maybe we can find a way to email each other.

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Apr 01, 2016
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DESPERATION NEW
by: Anonymous

ANY ONE AT SANTIAGO DE CUBA KNOWS A GIRL BY THE NAME L.......AT THE GAY CLABS AND HER DANCER GIERLFRIENT FROM TR..CABRT.CUPOLE LES-B-N-BE AWARE SHE IS A LSB JANEITERA ,TARGETING OLDER MAN ..RIGHT SOMTHING ABOUT .....I BE VERY PLEASED ,TO KNOW .

Feb 05, 2016
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Nov 03, 2015
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Yes I was with a chick like that last night And again tonight she said she dumped a Canadian husband she had because he had a small dick

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Sep 08, 2015
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What´s the problem? NEW
by: Ricardo Chingon

I truly should love to have a 'jinetera' in my life, it´d be an amazing experience for me. So, here goes my email: ricardo384@hotmail.com.
I´ve enough money to spend with any of those girls, just contac with me!.

Jun 08, 2015
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by: Anonymous

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Jun 05, 2015
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married to a jinitera NEW
by: Anonymous

I can understand your pain by the way she deceived you. I feel sorry with it. I have gone through many articles regarding such cases through essays writing services. But i am would like to suggest to be aware of those people and forget it and welcome to new life.

Mar 11, 2015
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hey there NEW
by: ben

This is a nice way to find her for sure. I don’t think any man is going to turn her in. Why do these girls act like this? I surely do not know. I mean I have seen cases like these so many times. Nowadays men are the one at risk. Electronic Medical Record

Jan 25, 2015
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tough shit amigo NEW
by: Anonymous

You are so stupid for bringing her to Canada, you deserve whatever happens to you. I can't feel any pity for you stupid idiots...so many of you out there,(man and women)

Jan 16, 2015
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Great Advice. NEW
by: Craig

To men travelling to Cuba I would advise you to read the previous post, that man knows what he is talking about and I agree with every point he made.

Do not trust the women you meet in Havana or Santiago night clubs, most are on the make, out to con you into sending money or bringing them regalos.

I met one such lady of the night at a small hotel in Rafael Freyere 1 hour from Holguin.

She worked as an animator' and was a total diva with an attitude, though she could get any man she wanted. She spent all day lying on a sun bed and the only animating she seemed to do was hooking up with the single men at the resort.

I told her outright that I was married and that my wife could not join me for family reasons, it was term time and my wife needed to be there for the children.

This woman went out of her way to hook me. I know I was also to blame and it takes two to tango. she invited me to join her for a moonlit walk on the beach one night and seduced me.

She told me she wanted to have my babies, wanted me to build her a home in Holguin. This broad was one tough cookie, she knew I was married, going throgh a tough time in my marriage but was doing me best to work it out.

She persisted. She manipulated me into booing a room for us the following day over at Breezes resort, an hour away in Guardalavaca. She said we could be alone there, 'party in private' was how she described it.

Next day I sobered up, realized what a mug I had been taken for. she then turned on me, told me she preferred me when I was sober.

To guy thinking of hooking up with women at resorts of bars in Cuba I say be careful, you could end up with more than you bargain for.

the hotel in question is off the beaten track and does attract a lot of older men who go there precisely for one reason, to hook up with girls young enough to be their grand daughter.

You also see the sad very obese single woman there for the same reason. In fact you find this type in resorts all over Cuba.

The small I hotel I stayed at in Rafael Ferereys has an onsite doctor and nurse who regularly treated the working girls at the hotel.

These gals are with differed men every week, they are known to the hotel which seems to turn a blind eye to what is happening since they need the money that sex tourism brings to them.

I am not an old man, I am 40 consider myself to be reasonably good looking and do not need to pay for it, but I was a target.

The dangers of hooking up with one of these gals and they are attractive, is that Penicillan has become resistant to treating infections such as gonhorrea and other STD's and these gals are injected on a regular basis and can access antibiotics for free, over the counter, with the result that regular us has diminished the effect of these pills.

So unless you want to return home with more than you bargained for, steer clear of the working girls and if you are tempted be sure to use protection.

And do a print out of the previous post which offers great advice for guys planning a trip to Cuba.

Dec 23, 2014
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by: Anonymous

HAVING MARRIED A CUBAN WOMAN OVER 15 YEARS AGO AND HAVING TWO LOVELY DAUGHTERS, I CAN ATTEST THAT ITS POSSIBLE--ALTHOUGH EXCEEDINGLY RARE- TO FIND TRUE LOVE IN CUBA. AFTER 25 VISITS TO THE ISLAND, I HAVE SEEN EVERY TRICK IN THE BOOK. SADLY, IT IS TRUE THAT CUBANS ARE MASTERFUL CON ARTISTS--PERHAPS THE BEST IN THE WORLD. MOST IMPORTANT ITEM--YOU MUST SEE HER IDENTITY CARD (CARNE) TO VERIFY HER AGE-HAVING SEXUAL INTERCOURSE MAY LAND YOU IN JAIL. SECONDLY, MAKE A PHOTOCOPY OF THE ID CARD, HAVE A LOCAL TAKE IT TO THE POLICE PRECINCT--NOT YOU PERSONALLY--AND GET THE SCOOP ON HER BACKGROUND. THIRD, AFTER YOU HAVE KNOWN HER FOR A MONTH, PUT A CRISP 100 DOLLAR BILL IN AN ENVELOPE, RECORD THER SERIAL NUMBER, THEN PLACE IT IN HER HOUSE AND TELL HER NOT TO OPEN IT FOR ANY REASON WHATSOEVER--WHEN YOU RETURN AND CHECK ON THE ENVELOPE,

YOU WILL LEARN HER TRUE NATURE. IF THE MONEY WAS SPENT, THEN YOU SIMPLY CANT MARRY HER. RULES OF THUMB--GOOD GIRLS STAY INDOORS--BAD GIRLS GO TO CLUBS/DISCOS TO CON ESTRANJERAS (IE-"FOREIGNERS"); RULE #2-WHEN SHE BRINGS YOU TO MEET HER FAMILY IN THEIR RURAL MODEST HOME, ASK HER TO COOK A BIG POT OF ARROZ CON POLLO OR ROPA VIEJA; IF SHE BALKS AT THIS SIMPLE REQUEST--INSTEAD INSISTING THAT YOU DROP MONEY FOR PREPARED FOODS--THEN SHE IS NOT A KEEPER. IF SHE IS UNWILLING TO WASH YOUR UNDERWEAR, YOUR STINCKY SOCKS, AND CUT YOUR TOENAILS, THEN SHE IS NOT HUMBLE ENOUGH TO BE YOUR BRIDE. MY FIANCEE LOVINGLY CUT MY TOE NAILS AND MASSAGED MY FEET WHENEVER I ASKED HER TO--WITH A GENUINE SMILE ON HER FACE; RULE #3--TELL HER THAT FOR HER BENEFIT--AND YOURS--TO PRACTICE HER ENGLISH 10 MINUTES EVERY NIGHT--EITHER VIA THE WEB/U-TUBE OR WITH A DVD THAT YOU GIVE HER. THE EFFORT SHE PUTS INTO THIS ENDEAVER IS DIRECTLY PROPORTIONAL TO HER SINCERITY AND GENUINE DESIRE TO MAKE A FUTURE WITH YOU. NO EFFORT ON HER PART SPELLS TROUBLE. THAT K-1 VISA IS PRECIOUS--PROCEED WITH CAUTION--DATE HER FOR AT LEAST A YEAR-DO NOT BRING HER OUT OF CUBA TO YOUR HOME COUNTRY UNTIL SHE HAS PASSED AL THE LOYALTY TESTS I HAVE ENUMERATED-I KNOW WHAT IM TALKING ABOUT B/C IVE BEEN THRU IT ALL-AND I SPEAK SPANISH FLUENTLY. CAVEAT EMPTOR!!!


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Nov 15, 2014
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by: Anonymous

I loved read all this commemts coz I have be involved with women from piliphines Indonesia I almost fall in the trap tanks god im like a cat to make a move I must fall 4 feets at seme time///here in my town I know a Portuguese Canadian he had seme problem after spend 10 k to get her in the country she disappear after 3 months he spend a lot already to find her for reasons to sale the house and no luck tanks for this imformation we get to be wise

May 10, 2014
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Play Their NEW
by: Anonymous

Te Quiero Mucho..... that's the game they play. I love Lots.
Go to Cuba and realize you are on a date,,it's a week long date. Have a good time, say I love You, go dancing and have fun. When it's over remember it was just a " Date "
No different then going to the bar in your own country and meeting a girl or guy and going on a few dates. Sometimes it's good and other times it's a " Rip-Off ".
It's wrong to call Cubans " Hookers ",,,if they are hookers,, so are all the people we meet in bars at home.
For the people who get on here and complain, and cry,,,, Wake up, you were on a Date.

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May 10, 2014
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Play Their " Game " NEW
by: Anonymous

Te Quiero Mucho..... that's the game they play. I love Lots.
Go to Cuba and realize you are on a date,,it's a week long date. Have a good time, say I love You, go dancing and have fun. When it's over remember it was just a " Date "
No different then going to the bar in your own country and meeting a girl or guy and going on a few dates. Sometimes it's good and other times it's a " Rip-Off ".
It's wrong to call Cubans " Hookers ",,,if they are hookers,, so are all the people we meet in bars at home.
For the people who get on here and complain, and cry,,,, Wake up, you were on a Date.

good Luck,,, game Player

May 09, 2014
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Apr 04, 2014
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Jul 25, 2013
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It's the same story over and over again
by: Mr. Z


As the article stated, don't be too quick to label all Cuban women (or young men) as prostitutes. There are of course some, but mostly, Cuba is like other countries. But since Cubans are poorer, less foreign money will get you more. In most Western countries, an overweight person who is 60+ could never be with a gorgeous 20 year old (unless you were super rich like Trump, Jagger, Hefner, Micheal Douglas, Larry King...) unless you paid a high end hooker at least $500. But in Cuba I see that on EVERY trip and in EVERY city.

I have never, and will never pay for sex, or so I thought. But which guy wouldn't buy gifts and give money to their "true love, girlfriend, or wife)? I of course knew that all those old guys were either being suckered or realized they where with whores, but I was different. I was only 22 years older than my 22 year old "true love". I was 44, in great shape, muscular, dark hair, tall, nice looking... so I convinced myself that she (who was very pretty and sexy) must be attracted to me and not my cash. But then she began asking for a cellphone, shoes, clothes, bikini, medicine for her sick grandmother (whom I never saw), and then shoes for her brother. I almost never saw her wearing any of the MANY dresses and other items I bought for her. She would constantly ask me to credit her cellphone, which could be over $100 every month. And after one year and several visits by me, she asked for a laptop and for me to buy her a house (around $20 000). Then I finally realized what I was with and told her it was over.

She did the crying, anger, excuses, denial, promises thing, but I ignored her. Then she sent me an email saying she was pregnant with my child. As I knew the timeline was off, I told her that she was a liar and a puta, would ask me for money for "our baby" and in several months tell me she had a miscarriage. When I didn't send her any money or gifts or tell her I'd come back to see her, she sent me an email over a month later telling me she had a miscarriage because I hurt her feelings!

I am now with a beautiful, hardworking, educated and intelligent woman who is only a few years younger than me.

The moral, even if you think you look like a movie star and built like Mr. Olympia, don't think the Cuban is with you for love. I told every woman that I met there that I wanted a serious relationship and to have a child - the couldn't run away fast enough. So go down there for fun, help out a nice woman, and then leave. Don't get attached. Spending a few hundred dollars to have fun for a week won't break your bank, but falling in love will break your heart.

Good luck.

Jun 05, 2013
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jinitera...the jockey
by: Anonymous

I first visited cuba in 2012 for a party hosted by a friend of mine... i had seen numerous pics and heard all the warnings about cuban women...but their beauty and sentuality is something thats almost impossible to resist. I met a beautiful cuban girl at San jose Market in havana at her job and it seemed like love at first sight and i returned to cuba 11 times in less than one year to see her..i thought that she loved me but what she really loved was my lifestyle...I live in the Bahamas and im well off financially and i show it but its a mistake in cuba. the women are trained to spot tourists and the play you like an old bass giutar guys! When you have big money in cuba you are a BOSS and women flock to you like flie to rotting fish! it is not a crime nor a sin to drink of the beautiful pleasures of cuba, however..they are not to be taken seriously. 75% of all young cuban girls have a hidden adgenda and will do unbelievable things to meet that adgenda. Real love is almost impossible to find in cuba. i was engaged to a Beautiful cuban girl...i had spent over 25,000.00 in 11 months on travel and luxuries in life with her and do you know what i got from her in return?? 1 pair of boxer shorts and a hypertension due to stress...society has shaped their mentality...im not saying that all are bad..but i have yet to meet a good cuban woman that does not want to use you for her own adgenda.

Dec 10, 2011
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My Landlady Turned Out To Be Better Than Inspector Clouseau
by: Alice

I really believed he loved me. He danced like a dream, swept me off my feet on the dance floor of the casa de la trova. He never asked me for money and emailed me constantly telling me how much he loved me. He enjoyed simple things like sitting on a bench at the Malecon quoting my favourite poets.
He spent over an hour on the phone (at his expense) telling me how much he missed me and could not bear to think I had gone to Varadero and not his town when I returned. "I want to see you" he kept repeating.

I had booked a last minute flight to Varadero when I had not heard back from him. He was very angry and explained the blip in communication as due to the Xmas break. Who knows though, in hindsight he may have been otherwise engaged.

When I finally did return to his small town on the far eastern tip of Cuba he has changed, he was sporting stylish shirt and sneakers. He kept hassling me to take a casa I was not interested in depsite having found a lovely casa with sea view where I was very comfortable.

He turned his nose up at the leather sandals, he had wanted stylish Havianas. He took me to see a shack he claimed he lived in, it was a mess. He kept whining on about what it would cost paint and build on a bathroom, "where we could live when I returned".

I felt instinctly something was not right so my landlady phoned her friend who had access to police files. He had a record of 'Fraternising With Estranjeras" Too clever though to have ever signed a register.

Further calls/ investigation revealed he had two children by different women and now lived with an older Cuban woman and her child. Not in the hovel he had shown me.

Do not ask me why, but he charmed, conned me into leaving most of my new clothes sneakers which he said he would sell to buy a phone to call me. He never did.

Be forewarned, ask around about your Jinitera Gerry, ask neighbours, casa owners, they will tell you so much more than your jinitera ever will.

Good Luck!.

Dec 09, 2011
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You Don't Need to Spend On A Private Investigator
by: Dave

Gerry, you really do not need to spend your hard earned cash on a private investigator.

Most security guards speak English and have access to most of the hotels, slip him $20 and ask him to keep an eye on your wife whe you you're not there, and to email you the evidence.

The daughter or niece of a casa owner will also be reliable and if they happen to be studying could do with the money. Most will have a cellphone, if not and you find someone trustworthy then you could bring a cheap phone which has ability to record.

I believe that karma has a way with catching up with the nasty people of this world. You will catch her out.

Remember you deserve better, we all do. No one deserves to be scammed, or played for a fool.

If she's on Facebook you could set up a fake profile as a honeytrap, if she's a hooker she will take the bait.

Good Luck my friend. I wish you a happy holiday and a happier and brighter future ahead.

Dec 08, 2011
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Thanks Stefano
by: Gerry

Thanks Stefano....I am going back this Dec and I am not telling her. I'm going to find someone to check up on her.
Naturally I've been to Cuba many times for her, in those trips I have made friends. I'm going to bet their help to find an investigator who can access hotels. I want the proof that she spent time in a hotel with another man.
I don't give a shit what she is doing right now. In fact I know what she is doing. Right now she has a Cuban boyfriend, and I'll Bet you all the money in my pocket, $800 , that he has been seeing her when I'm away.
He can't get her into a Resort Hotel to stay for a week. She has to do that with a Tourist.
When that first started, I believed the reason for being gone a week or 3 or 4 days. But she was always contradicting herself, and near the end she screwed-up Big Time with a Hotel. It was then I knew she had been doing it all through our marraige.
This was a Shitty experience, that said,,, not all the women are bad. The good ones don't hang at the airport,, or the Bars,,, and they don't dress like a Hooker to get attention.
The good ones are like any other decent woman in any other country. We get screwed because, as men, " WE " are not accustomed to being Hit-on by 5 women in one day. Thaks again

Dec 08, 2011
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Caught My Jinitera On Camera!.
by: Stefano - Callabria

Ciao Gary,

So sorry to hear about your wife. It is so hard to find Cuban woman you can establish trust in.

I too fell for a charmer, at first she was all sweetness and light, then came the requests for regalos, and finally an engagement ring.

I really thought I could trust her. She was in her 30's not the type you'd find in a night club. She had a job in Holguin where she is from.

Anyway I was sending her money grams and was about to set a wedding date and arrange a visa for her to Italy as there is no way I could afford to keep us both in Holguin, I work here in Italy.

One nght I called the lady who owns the casa where I always stay. She has become a friend, like an older sister and she has great respect for me and would not want me to be hurt.

What she told me sent turned me cold. I could hardly believe it. Her daughter had been out at a local disco the weekend before, it was the week of Romerio di Mayo and there were lots of events on that week. She told me her daughter had spotted my fiance locked in the arms of an elderly German tourist. I did not want to believe it. But her daughter had actually recorded it on her cellphone.

I kept up a front with my fiance and when I returned in August this year and saw the phone footage I felt sick, how could this woman who claimed to love me be so fickle as soon as my back was turned.

I challenged her, she turned on the tears and denied it. It was only when M. showed her the cellphone footage that her jaw dropped, she still tried to make up some excuse, but I'd had enough, I told her we were through, that was it!.

I steered clear of Cuban women ever since.

Gary I am sure you could arrange to have your wife followed and photographed, it is easy to do. And at least you will know, and your mind will be at rest.

Good luck!.

Stefano.

Dec 04, 2011
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by: gary

thank you Mr. Anonomous
You sound madder at her then I am. Maybe you are the one she has been seeing for years. He was in there before me and made many return trips, and most likely even after she married me. I stumbled on his Gifts one day and that's when all the trouble started.
If you are one of the men you can tell me something else about her. I mentioned 2 things, however there are a couple of other things that set her apart from others.
I don't describe her completely because I don't want to make life difficult for every woman in Cuba that is with a Canadian.

I was angry,, REALLY angry. I'm over it now. Now I want to save myself from spending money in a Cuban court, giving it to a Cuban lawyer and especially giving her any kind of support.
And, like you say . I want to stop her.
But you can't stop her without proof.
My next step is to give her name to the police. Even with them you need some proof.
Thanks for your comment, and I wish you all the best in the New Year..

Dec 04, 2011
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Gary You Have A Right To Be Angry!
by: Anonymous

You say you are 'not mad or angry' but as a husband you have a right to know where your wife disappears to for weeks at a time.

Cubans have no respect for the sanctity of marriage. To them it is merely a meal ticket for life, a visa out of poverty provided by a tourist mug enough to fall for their charm.

You have been duped, as many men and women have before you.

Cubans are the most articulate educated scammers in the world. They read you, learn your vulnerabilities, and play on them. They will go in for the kill after a few Mohitos or Crystals, spin the lies, the b.s. sob stories, tell you how much they adore you, recite you your favourite poets, talk about what they know interests you. They are the most devious players in the world.

They cast their fishing rod and wait for you to bite, they bide their time patiently, will wait years if need be, run up iternet email debts with friends. It's an investment they cuningly know will pay off when you leave the contents of your suitcase with them or better still pop the question. BINGO! they're hit the jackpot, their scheming lies and cunning wiles have paid off.

Mission Accomplished!!

Call your border control, provide them with your whore's name, date of birth. Name and shame the whore!. Do not under any circumstances fly her out. She will dump you like a hot brick as soon as she sets foot in Canada, not before she has cleaned out your bank account and hired a lawyer to evict you from your home.

I speak from experience my friend.

Divorce this whore asap!!.

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