My Cuban Love Story
No need for negativity.... here maybe a true love story!
I thought I would try and dispand some of the negativity when it comes to Cuban men for the lovely and loving ladies in the world.
They are not all bad, I agree it can be easy to fall for the lushness of the dark cuban skin, the sexy voice but really there are some very good men out there, whether it be Cuba, UK you get your jokers in all walks of life.
So, here is some postitive vibes, I met my lovely man on a tour in Nov 2010, I have been back twice since and just having returned from another fantastic trip to the Country I know that I have not and am not being scammed.
He is now coming to the UK in summer, and is keen to meet his future mother in law!!
It's an expensive relationship, but fully worth it and I dont think I would want to be or love anyone else that the wonderful Cuban man I have met.
Keep smiling everyone-I know I am :) x
Remark by Vic, Webmaster
It's not my intention to be negative or to comment on the life of others, just to warn you! (Anyway who am I?)
BUT be alert! I have seen, heard, read to much on this subject. Please don't call me negative, I am more of "a Realist". Having said this, just a few question to reflect on.
How will he integrate in his new country?
Don't underestimate the cultural differences and barriers. Does he speak the language well enough to get a job? Will he work, (study?) are you going to support him? Will he support his family in Cuba by sending money? Can you afford this? Note that several Cubans are getting homesickness after 2 or 3 years, don't underestimate this.
In case of a marriage, talk to a lawyer to protect your assets, I know of a British guy who lost half of his assets, when his Cuban wife wanted a divorce and hired a solicitor in London. Be careful with credit cards too, you only know him from two short trips to Cuba!
Only after 3-5 years in the UK you can evaluate your relationship (and his integration) earlier is too soon. In the meantime stay alert.
A red flag is when he frequents Cuban bars in the UK to meet other Cubans without your presence!
Wish you all the best, but protect yourself, stay alert!