My cuban marriage divorce story
I would like to share my story, a story of a broken heart and broken dreams all thanks to a Cuban jinetero.
As most of the stories start, I met Alxxxx on vacation in Santa Lucia, Camaguey, Cuba. As we spent time together, I develop close feelings towards him. As time went on, I travelled back to visit and started talking about a life together. He promised he would love, care and respect me. I believed him, married him and brought him to Canada. I explained to him the life we live in Canada and how hard we work to survive. He promised he would work with me and adjust to the change.
Shortly after our wedding, I received notification from another girl telling me about her story with Alxxxx, and mentioned others as well. This was the beginning of the discovery of who he was a Jinetero looking for a ticket out of Cuba!
When he arrived in Canada, he started his control and manipulation by saying I was at fault for all his issues. He had left everything in Cuba to come with me, now, here; I was not what he expected. After the first year, once he had settled down, had learned the language, learned to drive and bought a car (all at my expense), he started his cheating and lying trail.
For two years I struggled with the feelings of betrayal and love at the same time. I couldn’t convince myself that he was a deceitful, a liar and a dishonest person. I couldn’t understand why he would treat me with such disrespect after all I had done for him, out of my love.
He cheated three times while in the short time he was with me. I discovered everything was a lie; he lied to me in order to get a ticket out of Cuba.
I found this out thru emails, text messages and phone calls. Once he arrived here, he saw the opportunities and once he had taken the last penny he could get from me, he found other girls to support him as he doesn’t want to put any effort on working to support himself.
This was the most painful experience I have ever been through. To live through lies, deceit and betrayal it feels like I was violated in my own home, in plain daylight and with my eyes wide open!!
It has been a nightmare, my personal confidence as a woman was put in question due to lies and accusations without base and support. It has been a long and painful recovery process. It will take time to heal, but I will never be the same!
I’m sharing my story with you because I believe this is the worst kind of person it exists in this world. I have witnessed many of my friends go through the same and it is unfair that we have no legal recourse to have this people pay for what they are doing.
As you can imagine, I spent a lot of money, time and effort into this relationship, only to have my money, hopes and my dreams stolen from me. He took away my core values of believing in people; believing that people are kind and good-hearted.
Alxxxx, is a con artist, that didn’t deserve a chance to come to this country. It was a big mistake I made and I’m paying dearly for it. I feel very terrible knowing I brought this person to this country and he is out there hurting other people. I am a human being and I deserve respect and as such I would like to see justice done with these people.