My Love Story in Cuba
by Tammy Myshrall
(Toronto Ontario Canada)
I went to Cuba after a bad breakup with my boyfriend. I went with some family just for vacation. I met a wonderful guy there and when I left we kept in touch via email and telephone. I went back to visit 3 more times that year and finally we decided to get married. My family had met his family and everyone was happy about the wedding. After that it took 8 months to arrange for him to immigrate to my country. Things did not go well right from the start. He was cold to me and uninterested in my life, preferring to play video games all day.
Exactly 2 months after his arrival he went to visit some other friends-another couple he told me and I couldn't go because I had to work. He was unavailable the whole time he was away so I put spyware on my computer and when he returned I caught him emailing his girlfriend that he had just been with all weekend! I kicked him out and it has been almost 2 years now, but let that be a lesson to you. Once they have decided they want out, they will do and say anything to convince you they are genuinely in love. The whole family will be together in on it because they want a better life through that family member too. It is better for a Cuban girl to be with a male foreigner than it is for a Cuban guy to be with a female foreigner because Cuban men treat their women so bad, they feel like a princess with someone else, but the man will continue to be the egotistical creep he is at home, wherever he goes.