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Over Night in Havana

by Troy P Wright
(Moncton NB Canada)

I got the warnings and I listened. It was fun having the most beautiful women ever, wanting to be with me. Even though it was not what I was looking for, I enjoyed it as I danced at the Salon Rojo.

Then I noticed a beautiful girl dressed in jeans, she seemed more modest, humble and proud. She and her two friends noticed after a while that this girl was the only girl in the bar I was looking at. We eventually talked, she knew some but very little English, dug through our communication barrier. Finally I was able to ask if I could buy her and her two friends a drink. I then became sold when I understood that she said " Not my money ". I bought them all drinks anyways. We danced the night away.
I promised no sex if she would come with me, I just didn't want the night to end. She did come with me but I was unable to bring a guest to my hotel. So the bubble of the most beautiful night burst. We hung out for a bit, exchanged numbers, Then I walked her to where cabs drove by often, then I watched her drive away. Now, two weeks from that night, I still live in that moment. Since then I have taken every step to make sure I haven't lost her. My passion is to know this girl, be her friend, be her lover, I don't know - We just met.

I'm not a stupid guy or a fool. I'm a very perceptive person with an IQ is over 140. I deny that I am in love. But everyone who knows my story and see's my face while I tell it, say's - Troy you are in love. ....Well I don't know about that, but I do know, that my heart is undone until I find out. We communicate on the phone and I'm waiting for an email from her to get through to me. Some nice lady's at the post office helped communicate information because I wanted to make sure she had the means to get an email address and have the money to do it.
I had no idea how much it would cost her or how much money she made. So... I'm happy to say, so far so good. We're finally in contact. I didn't know much before reading some of these blogs, I see there are reasons to use caution. steady on, my heart tells me. Any friendly advice is welcome advice. Good luck to all

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by: Anonymous

Troy; you want to show that you're a nice guy, but you're a pathetic cunt in love. And you didn't even fuck her?!.
Nothing more, nothing less. Sorry to burst your bubble.

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by: Anonymous

I tried bringing my now ex-girlfriend to Canada on a visitor visa and then a work visa, both were denied. I spoke to someone at the Cuban embassy and a Cuban who came here by marrying a Canadian and both told me that CIC denies almost all Cuban visa requests since Harper came into office, to keep the US happy. They don't tell you that your chance is zero because they need your application fees.

When my "girlfriend" kept asking for more expensive items, the last two being a laptop and a HOUSE, I told her it was over and I found a lovely Canadian woman. She has since sent me pics of herself staying at an expensive hotel, her with a laptop, microwave, lots of shoes and dresses... So obviously she's now found another sucker to be "in love" with, until he wises up. But a lot of guys don't wise up until after they've bought a house there and one day when they arrive, they find police officers waiting because the woman said she is being abused. The guy is threatened with jail and has to leave the country. Good luck.

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by: Anonymous

It's too bad you didn't take that girl to your hotel. You should have rented her a separate room, or pay the security. Usually when you pay 20 CUC the girl could stay till 3 AM. You would have found out if she asked you for the money, up front or afterwards. Acording to some reviews all women at Sala Rosa sell their services. Never the less you can only blame Cubans to certain extend for trying to survive or seeming a better life. When I think about that monthly wage is between CUC10-15 and a pair of jeans or a dress cost CUC 30. I don't want to merry my Cuban girlfriend, but would do allot to help her to get out and work for some time. The best would be to bring her on a working visa. I just spoke to one of my co worker's from Edmonton, and her friend just brought somebody from Cuba on a working visa to his gas station. All you need is an employer who would fill up the form guaranteeing her a certain amount of hours per week. Passport cost CUC 120 and I read that Cubans need an exit visa for CUC 400. That would be the best way to see if she would still stick with you which could be to get a residency. Even if if wouldn't work you'd still helped the person you think that you love.relationships cannot work by force. It works, or it doesn't.

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by: Anonymous


It is frightening how G described my situation almost EXACTLY. Cellphone request, endless recharges (money on her cellular account), sick grandmother (whom I never met), she was 22, I was 44. She was in a crowded house which needed repair, she helped her mother and half-brother, stepsister, stepfather, aunt, grandmother (and probably boyfriend) with the money and gifts I bought her.

Set a limit to how much you will spend depending on what you can afford. I suggest no more than $100 per visit, which is almost one year salary for most Cubans and should keep any non-barracuda happy. If you want to bring a cheap dress or buy one there, some toothpaste, shampoo, razors, treats as well, great, but if you are bringing cash, you will leave with an empty wallet every time.

Good luck.

Jun 15, 2013
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Excellent Advice G.
by: Anonymous

G. you've given some excellent advice to the man who met a Cuban girl in Havana.

But the same advice could apply to women meeting Cuban men. They usually have a Cuban 'nobia' or wife, but will always claim to be single.

They will be extremely charming, read your mind, study your character, they are extremely well educated and will play you according to their assessment/psychological profiling of you smarter than a forensic detective.

For example if you happen to drop that you like a particular poet, all of their emails will include a reference to that poet. They will be on the slow burner for months, years even, then they will go in for the kill, that could be an expensive regalo, a suitcase full of clothing which they will sell. Or the ultimate jackpot - an engagement leading to a fiance visa out of Cuba.

In the months leading up to the jackpot they will try on little scams such as finding you a 'wonderful casa of a a friend where we can be together baby'. However the wonderful casa will be an illegal fleapit stinking of smoke and owned by his Jinitera friend who makes a living fleecing estranjeros.

Another little scam will be taking you to a hovel, a derelict house in a slum which will be the 'casa of their Aquela' who has no money to mend the roof, install a bathroom/toilet, they want to make it better, liveable so you two could stay together there on your next visit and you won't have any fussy casa owners to deal with.

Of course this little renovation will set you back $500 just to start the work.

I am pointing this out as a warning to men or women planning to visit Cuba. They are smart, they will read you inside and out, and play you like a violin.

You have been warned.

Jul 07, 2012
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Be careful....
by: G

Hi,
I'm a regular visitor to Havana and know it well. In your situation, while I can say you'll probably have fun with this girl. It's about 99% certain that it's not true love coming your way. Havana is definitely not the place to look for love, not love of the heart anyway. So be aware you're now playing a money game.

Of course if you feel like helping a particular Chica... help her, but also limit that help to reasonable amounts to protect yourself. It will be a bottomless pit if you don't set your limits.

Anyway, you didn't really ask for advice so I'll not offer anything deeper and beyond what I am going to say or already have (lol). However as a fellow NB'er I can tell you this. If they (a Cuban Chica) actually work (and many do not). They make approx 250 NP (National Pesos) a month. That's about $12 Canadian. So if you give a Chica 50 CUC's you're giving her over 4 months salary. When she spends it, of course it will not go that far as the things they want are all priced in tourist CUC'S. So 50 CUC will buy a lot of basic food like beans and similar, but in turn it will buy very little of the luxury items. From what I have seen over and over you will probably soon find that the amounts your "new interest" says she actually needs to live will increase as your relationship grows. I don't say she doesn't need the CUC's also, but she will try to get as much as she can while she can. Even if she is honest and doesn't want to press you to hard, her family will push her from behind the scenes to get more, and her friends will too.

My guess is soon you'll hear about a need (or a desire) for a Cell phone (with many recharges ahead), money for a sick Mama? perhaps fallen or damp walls in the overcrowed family home? Roof Repairs or similar issues and of course the "No Food to eat". Cubans are inventive in their requests for money and gifts, the list of methods to get the dollars out of your pocket will be endless.

I have personally found that with most every Chica there is usually a man (Cubano) somewhere in this equation. Perhaps a primo or a friend (or Maybe even a Father). From my experience the men often will control the younger women and coach them as how best to proceed with Tourist men. Some may suggest a quick "kill" while others prefer to play the long game and take the tourist down the "true love" route. Either way, it's either a death by a thousand cuts or a quick stab to the heart. I'm trying my best not to be cynical but it is a sad reality. The danger ages for women playing these games seem to be between the 20 - 28 yrs old ages.

I do wish you luck in you persuit of this woman and maybe you will be the one who actually wins that jackpot? The worst scenario is you fall in love... and if you do? They will eat you alive!

"Es No Facil" ... and that's a fact.

Mucha Suerte mi amigo. ....

G

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